You can make it possible for a second chance romance to take place in your broken relationship.
Listen to what your heart is saying and wait for the spark to grow.
Breaking up can give you a hard time to move on and think of a second chance idea, you will still feel the loss as if you cannot bear the pain anymore and you go on grieving.
However, there are those people who choose not to dwell on things that hurt them but opt to heal their hearts and start once more from the beginning.
It might sound so easy to say but it's too hard to do.
Saying I LOVE YOU will not totally help you to get back the love you used to have.
There are certain processes you need to undergo before you can finally realize that you still love him despite and in spite of the difficult times.
Pressures from family and friends may also stop you to be pathetically in love again to the person who chose to break your heart.
They do not want you to get hurt again.
However, the decision is still in YOU whether you allow the expectations to take in control of your life or you allow yourself to listen to your heart that will surely makes you happy.
If you still believe in second chance and your heart is still beating for him, then go and find a way to win him back, learn through the processes and take time.
Step 1: Getting to Know Yourself More If you want to solve the issue and make up for the second chance romance, there's a need to know who you really are during the relationship and on the time when the relationship is going to end, you look back on how you were as a partner.
Were you controlling that you avoid your partner to meet his friends? Was there a time that you are becoming so insecure with your partner? Were you not accepting ideas from him? Were you a nagger? Those attitudes can be a factor of your break up.
Once you realized this, you still can change yourself for the better.
Step 2: This is Not All Your Fault It is unfair that you were the only person to put the blame on the break up.
You also have to consider your partner.
You try to reflect on how was he as a partner? Was he able to be supportive of you? Did he ever try having an affair with someone else? Did he love and care for you? When he was not able to do the obligations as your partner, he can be also blamed, both of you.
Step 3: Friendship: A New Foundation Friendship is the ultimate foundation of any relationship.
It is not done overnight.
Even if you have known each other very well, the break up made you forget who your partner is, so it is very necessary to start again, like strangers.
The process of friendship is very exciting as you begin to learn new about each other as if you just met awhile ago.
Becoming best of friends can even help you strong when you enter deep and intense relationship especially when dealing with problems.
Step 4: Go Out Often With Him...
just a friendly hang out Once you started as friends, you can invite each other when hanging out with friends or in a party.
That's the start of learning to be comfortable with each other.
Talking anything over coffee is also great.
For sure you have lots of things to catch up! Step 5: Love is Starting to Grow...
for the second time.
When you are already comfortable with one another, you can now adjust becoming very close.
You may start sharing and opening thoughts and ideas with each other.
And by surprise, you want each other to be back for good.
You will slowly feel secure with each other.
The feeling becomes intense, love is in the air! It's like your day is incomplete without him/her.
You then realize that even if break-up had happened, both of you still feel warmth and intimacy when together.
Step 6: Back For Good Finally, after getting hurt fresh from break-up and have stood up again, now you and him are back for good! Since second chance was given for both of you, it is but your obligation to take care of your relationship.
To love means to nurture each other and love like forever.
You got hurt and you have been healed.
You stood up for yourself.
You learned from the mistakes.
You tried changing for the better.
You never blamed.
You desired second chance romance.
You made an effort.
You keep the faith.
You made friendship with each other.
You felt love and stars are glistening.
What a beautiful love to treasure for the second time.
As the quote would say, Love is lovelier the second time round.
Yes it is indeed true but it is always a reminder for you that a second chance is given to be responsible and mature in handling the relationship no matter how big or small the problems are.
You have to erase negative attitudes and learn to accommodate when ideas are different, and most of all, keep the love alive every day, every minute and every second.