If you are finding yourself just not the same person because your ex left, you are probably wondering how you can make them come crawling back to you.
I understand you want them back, but there's a few things you have to know in order to get them to even start thinking about rekindling their relationship with you.
Here's what you can do.
1.
Make Them Wonder.
The human tendency for curiosity will get them coming back to you.
The question though is how to make them curious? In order to peak their curiosity you must focus on showing them that you are perfectly fine and hardly affected by the split.
This can be done by calling them and leaving them a message saying something like, "I just wanted to call and thank you for what you did the other day, give me a call as I would love to thank you in person.
" When you leave them a message like that, they are going to automatically wonder what they would have done to warrant a thank you.
This will in turn get them to call you back to discuss things further.
Keep in mind however that using this technique without a follow up plan is dangerous and will only lead to them being pushed farther away.
This is just one of many secrets outlined in "The Magic of Making Up" book, but I wanted to give you a great tip as this is one of the most asked questions I get.
Another way to get them to miss you is by not acting like a desperate fool.
You don't want to leave them tons of messages and try to "get in touch" with them every chance you get as this is only going to push them away.
Sending them a nice gift like flowers or any other type of subtle gift without much contact is going to pique their interest and get them missing you like crazy.
They key here is to not become a stalker.
Showing them you still care while at the same time not badgering them is the first step to winning your ex back.
This is a fine line that many people cross and ruin their chances forever.
So precise planning must be made when implementing any techniques outlined in The Magic of Making Up.