Confused on how to get an ex girlfriend back? Don't be, because I'm going to show you just how to get her back before she moves on.
And hopefully before she finds another man.
So take a deep breath and let's begin.
Well if you are experiencing the typical break up pains.
Then symptoms of a heart break could include loss of sleep, loss of appetite, unrelenting torment of bad thoughts, mild depression, and even outbursts of crying.
If you are experiencing these symptoms then please stop what you are doing right now.
Actions that cause you to experience these symptoms include, constantly checking up on her, begging or pleading to get her back, thinking about her, and anything else that could possibly relate to her.
I know that listening to a song that reminds you of her seems comforting, but it's not.
It's only breaking you further down.
So here's what you need to do.
Go stand in the mirror and tell that person that you will be okay.
Because guess what? You will be okay.
Now it's important that get yourself in a positive state of mind.
Because you can not contact your ex while you are in a negative state of mind.
Like the all time classic 'Emotions' by the Bee Gees.
You can't let your emotions take over at this critical stage of getting back together.
When you let your emotions take over you tend to do some whacked out things.
Like begging or pleading for her to come back.
Which is just unattractive and will push her further away.
Now don't make it hard on yourself by staying in contact with your ex.
You need a little time for yourself to get your head straight.
So go about your day and focus on having fun.
Hang out with friends, play some wacky games, or watch comedy movies.
Laughter helps to heal the heart and soul.
So try to bring more laughter into your life.
By having a good time and staying out of contact with your ex.
You'll end up becoming more attractive.
You lose the unattractive qualities of being needy and desperate.
And your ex will see that you could either live with or without her.
Which will move her into wanting to get you back or even trying to stay in contact.
So remember it's all about focusing on you.
Get your mind off your ex girlfriend.
And when you let go, she might just come back without you having to put too much effort into trying to get her back.
By the way I hope you weren't holding your breath the whole time you were reading this.
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