If you are trying to get your girlfriend back it is important to keep things in perspective.
Do not lose track that mending a relationship will take time, patience, and effort.
There are so many factors that can cause a relationship to go bad.
But, it is possible to get your love back.
One of the primary reasons why relationships suffer is because the individuals do not communicate effectively.
It is very difficult for a relationship to flourish when no one in the relationship is letting the other person know how they feel or what they want or need.
Communication is key to having a well rounded relationship.
Do not underestimate the power of communication.
Tell your partner what are the things that make you happy...
and what are the things that upset you.
There is a wonderful phrase that you can use to make your life and your relationship so much better.
Please pay attention...
If you truly want your relationship to prosper try the following phrase...
" I need".
Yes, all you need to improve your relationship is to tell the one you love...
"I need".
For example, "Honey, I need for you to go to the grocery store, otherwise, there will be no supper".
This phrase is powerful and direct...
it leaves the other person with very little choice to back down.
Another example, "I need for you to stop leaving the toilet seat up".
Powerful statements that produce action.
You leave your partner baffled and confused! Last example, "If we are going to carpool, I need for you to stop giving me directions how to get to the party".
Effective and direct! "I need" lets your partner know how you feel about certain things...
you leave nothing to chance! Practice communicating with these two simple words and you will improve in all areas of your life, but more importantly in your relationship.
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