Finding that special someone is difficult.
It's a bit between luck and having a good eye for people.
Finding that someone fuels you with energy and desire.
You're driven by love, because you want the best life possible for you and yours.
But things aren't always easy between two hearts and break ups are bound to happen.
Some breakups are necessary, because the couple just wasn't meant to be..
something you can only find out as you go.
But if you are looking for some tips on how to get your ex back, you're probably really meant to be, because you still care enough about your lover.
Luckily, relationships that are meant to be can easily be fixed and here's how: 1 - The first step is to accept the break up.
Realize clearly that it did happen but don't lose your edge.
As I told you, this is only temporarily..
get your grip back and start to feel better again.
Stay confident.
Avoid self-pity like the pest, because people can tell if there is something you have to work out with yourself.
If you get clear in your head, things will go much more smoothly.
2 - Begging and clinging is a big no-no.
He or she made a decision, and you have to accept that.
Instead of begging them to change your mind, or apologizing for every single mistake you made, try to stay strong and calm.
Try to get by without them and get on with your life and work out the rest as you go.
3 - Becoming or staying attractive is the biggest secret on how to get your ex back.
After all, they are still themselves and you clearly have an advantage, because you know what he or she likes.
If you took the last two advices to heart and worked on your confidence and went on with life, the next step is to start attracting him or her, again.
This is how to get your ex back, not begging, clinging and pushing yourself.
4 - Remember your past mistakes and avoid them like the heck.
Don't apologize for everything, but simply don't do them again when you are seeing your ex again.
He or she will notice..
and it will have a positive impact, believe me.
You can tell someone that you changed without telling them, simply by showing.
If you can pull this off up to this point, I'm sure you will get back with your ex.
5 - Once, everything is in place, and you and yours are staying in touch, start working on your secret plan.
You have a goal..
you want back to where you belong: Into your lover's arms and bed.
Don't try to be overly smart or sneaky, or try to push her buttons or something.
It doesn't have to be all fancy pants, or make him or her go wow because you invited them to the most expensive restaurant.
Something personal and simple will do just fine.
Remember, you know them best.