Break ups suck.
And one of the worst things about them is the thought that you still want your girlfriend, but she doesn't want you anymore.
How do you get her back if she won't give you the time of day? How do you convince her that she's making a mistake if she won't answer your phone calls anymore? After all, she seemed to still want you a week or so before the break up, right? Is she just trying to teach you a lesson? If you want to get your girlfriend back, here are two post break up advice tips you can't ignore.
1.
No begging, pleading, or using mind games to get your girlfriend back.
Breaking off a relationship is about control.
Whoever ended the relationship is the one who's in charge, especially if the other person didn't want the relationship to be over.
So if your girlfriend broke up with you, anything you do immediately after the break up to try to get her back is only going to activate her control buttons.
She will think you aren't listening to her wants and needs.
She will try to force you to leave her alone.
If you beg and plead with her to take you back, she will only tell you no.
It will only reinforce her decision in her mind, so don't do it! 2.
Be a strong, independent man.
Remember what you were like when you first met your girlfriend? Bet you weren't following her around, begging her to be with you.
Bet you weren't calling her 15 times a day to ask her to go out.
If you want to get your girlfriend back, you need to be the guy she was attracted to when she first met you! The one who was in charge of your life.
The one who liked to flirt, have fun, and call all of the shots.
Not the one sitting by the phone, wanting her to call you.
Now is the make it or break it time.
Use this break in your relationship as a chance to get back to who you were before.
Show her that you don't need her! Women always want what they can't have!