You aren't alone if you're wondering how to get an ex girlfriend back, but you do need to be very careful how you proceed.
No doubt you're hurt, and so may she be.
That being the case, you will need to tread lightly so you don't hurt one another again, opening up wounds on the mend.
These are the considerations or tips you need to put the pieces back together.
1 - What was it that caused the break up? Mind you, this assumes you had a hand in it, and usually it takes a comedy of errors to end a relationship.
You will need to focus on what you did wrong, especially since you can't control her.
So what did you do wrong? If you were to do it all over, what would you do differently? 2 - If the entire break up process rests in your lap, then you will need to take the first step and tell your ex girlfriend that you know what went wrong.
Tell her you know your fault in the situation, and that you didn't mean to hurt her or to have things end this way.
Own up to it if it's your fault - just be careful not to assume guilt that isn't yours.
3 - Continue to go out with friends, although you may be trying to heal a broken relationship.
You may consider casually dating another girl, or at least hang out with friends.
If you date, be sure that you're clear in your objectives - you don't need collateral damage here.
It's not fair to the third party if you simply use her to get back to your ex, so don't get too involved or attached if reconciliation is your goal.
4 - You want to indicate somehow that you're over your ex, but at the same time that you still care.
This can keep the door open to reconcile, and is easily one of the most popular ways to rebuild a relationship.
You'll look more mature, you'll come off looking stronger, and she may compete with your new-found interest.
5 - If you want to know how to get an ex girlfriend back, become her friend.
Rebuild trust in a platonic relationship, and just be there for her.
You can ask tough questions about the break up later, and only if you can do so without indicating you're desperate.
Be casual, and maybe she'll let you know that breaking up was a mistake she regrets, or if things are much better now.
Whatever her answer, take it from there.
These steps are only the beginning to take in getting back your girlfriend.
These are a few that I used to win back my girl, and these ideas aren't my own.
I found them from T "Dub" Jackson who showed me how to get back together with my girlfriend.