From out of the clear blue sky, your ex boyfriend is suddenly paying you a lot of attention.
A part of you is ecstatic about this, because deep down, you would like to see if things would work out between the two of you.
Then there is another part of you that wonders, what are his real intentions? Is this just some ploy to make another woman jealous? Does he want to just hook up with you? Or does he want to get back together? You know which answer you want it to be.
You want it to be that he wants to get back together.
But, you were hurt in the past, and so you know that you have to be careful not to let him in too soon, at least, not until you really know what is on his mind.
The games that go on when a man and a woman get together can seem endless at times.
Wouldn't it be nice if things were just straight forward and you did not have to wonder about what is really on his mind? Ah, but the truth is, you do.
What are some things that will help you to figure out what your ex boyfriend is REALLY up to? 1.
Does he talk about there being another woman in his life? Some guys will try and get some love triangle thing going on just to get a woman jealous, and this almost always leads to headaches that you really do not need to have.
If he is mentioning another woman, it very well could be just a ploy to cause some drama and you may not want to deal with it.
Or it could mean that he is trying to see whether or not you get jealous to determine if you still have feelings for him.
Try to judge by his tone of voice what this really means.
2.
Does he try to get you to meet up with him and if he does, where? If he wants get together with you, it all depends on where it is to really figure out what is on his mind.
If he wants to get together some place like a restaurant, then he probably does just want to see you.
However, if he wants to get together somewhere private, there is a good chance that there are three letters on his mind and hooking up is what he wants to do.
3.
Does he try to get you to talk about the past, when the two of you were a couple? If this is what he is doing, then there is a good probability that he may be doing this to try and get his way back in the door.
He might want you to remember the good times so that you are into the idea of giving things another shot.
Like anything that has to deal with a relationship, there are no clear cut answers to what your ex boyfriend's true intentions are.
Try to figure them out and also try and figure out how you really feel about him.