After the breakup you are longing to hear your ex's voice.
However, you fear he/she will give you an earful and make matters worse.
You are also not sure if he/she will take your call.
Well, if you are facing this situation then do the following, so that your ex calls you back.
Stop feeling miserable Breakups are a part of life and almost everyone goes through this phase of life.
So, what you are going through is not something new and you can consult a friend or family that has faced a similar situation and take some moral support.
You will have to stop feeling sorry for yourself.
Give your ex a break The breakup should mean just that "Break - Up".
Don't push the envelope too much by texting/emailing or voice mailing your ex all the time.
Give yourself and your ex a well deserved break.
This will ensure that you don't come across as a desperate person.
Focus somewhere else Although thoughts of your ex will stay at the back of your mind you will have to consciously avoid thinking about your ex.
This can be achieved by focusing all your attention on your work or your hobby.
Get yourself a new look You will have to get a new look.
Seek the advice of stylist and upgrade your wardrobe.
Also make sure you have all the matching accessories so that you look stunning.
Only when you are dashing than before can you expect him/her to call you.
Make a guest appearance Attend parties where you are likely to meet your ex.
However, make only a guest appearance and move away the moment she/he sees you.
You just have to give them a short preview of your new look.
If they are impressed or pleased they will surely call you.
Leave a message When you know that your ex is out of their home, call and leave a short but sweet message on their answering machine.
Also mention that you will call again.
However, don't make that repeat call.
He/she will be expecting your call and when you don't call your ex will get restless.
Now wait patiently If your ex is satisfied or impressed with the changes you have made and has forgiven you for the past blunders he/she will definitely call.
However, if they don't call repeat the same trick and wait for a while.
If the call still does not come then make the call yourself and have a small polite conversation.
After this avoid making any further calls till he/she calls you.