There are two things that are essential to do if you are intent on fixing your broken relationship.
The first is to completely agree with the break up even though you don't.
The object is to not fight it or give your loved one a reason to fight it.
Agree.
Do not begin a campaign of terrorism ...
via emails, text messages, phone calls ..
in which you attempt to plead your case of why you cannot live without him/her.
This is only adding fuel to the fire and will ensure the breakup was right ..
in themind of the other person.
"After all..
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LOOK at the behavior of my ex!" So you have already done that?You are way beyond that ..
and REALLY need help now? Don' fret.
It's there.
Write a letter.
Admit to having been acting quite irrationally in the past days or weeks or however long it has been you have been raging this terror then simply agree to the breakup in the letter...
saying how you think it is the best thing for both of you.
Now you can relax.
You have just employed the first of the two key strategies needed to begin fixing your broken relationship.
Now you can trustthat what you know was real in your relationship is still real and it will survive.
What you need to do is give it the time and space it needs to do that.
So on you go to the second of the two key strategies needed to begin fixing your broken relationship.
You will hear from your "friend".
When you do your initial emotional response will want to be to run immediately back into his/her arms.
That is called "premature reconciliation" and risks undoing everything that was accomplished by employing that critical first key strategy.
This second strategy is to play it cool.
Let him/her know that you are doing fine..
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that you are real happy to hear from him /her..
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and perhaps one day you can get together for coffee...
but today is out of the question as you have a full schedule.
Let him/ her know you think about him /her ...
hope she/he is doing well..
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and you hope to talk again soon.
Then ..
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There is not only your happiness at stake here ...
but also the happiness of your loved one.
Do not risk losing that.
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