If your boyfriend has left you because he desires another woman, you can put away the tissues and stop weeping over your loss.
There is a solution! He may have thought he had many reasons to move on to someone else, but if you want to relight the fires of passion and get your ex boyfriend back, have confidence.
You have more power than you think.
First, if he has the hots for someone else, insulting her or trying to compare yourself to her will not work.
He sees her through the haze of infatuation.
It will only make you look jealous and insecure.
Instead, be understanding.
If moving on makes him happy, then let him know that you are happy for him.
While this may go against everything you feel, if you pull it off, he will wonder why you aren't bothered.
Controlling your emotions is important if you want to get your ex boyfriend back.
Sniveling, crying and clinging will only serve to make you look uglier than her.
People are more attracted to confidence and a sense of humor.
When you play your cards right, he will be curious, which is a form of interest, and he will be looking your way when you are at your best.
Once you've established that you are happy for him, and that you are not falling apart, he will try to find out why you are acting this way.
He will begin calling not only to quench his curiosity, but to assure himself that you are still waiting in the wings.
Don't answer the phone or return the messages.
Make yourself scarce and busy.
He will wonder what you are doing, and why you seem so content.
By now, he will be so confused by your response, that he will be more focused on you than the other woman, and you have set yourself up, if you still want, to get your ex boyfriend back.