Have you recently split up with your partner and do you now want to know how to win him back? Is living without him or her proving more difficult than you thought and are you now wishing you hadn't split up? These feelings are understandable if you now feel at loose ends and I understand your emotions myself as a short time ago I split up with my partner too.
At the time I thought it was the right thing to do, but I was still devastated.
I soon realized that I had made a mistake and soon all I could think about was how to reverse the situation and get him back.
If this sounds familiar to you then you will be pleased to hear it might not be that difficult to win your partner back once and for all.
I did exactly that and if you want to know how I did it, then keep reading! You may be surprised to hear that the secret of getting your ex back is quite obvious and simple.
However, if you are not careful, the wrong move may mean losing him forever, so you need to tread carefully.
Looking back at my situation, it's quite funny because if I had done what I wanted to do at that time, I think I could have really messed it up and would be resenting it to this day.
Instead, I discovered a secret that really helped me and that could help you too in wooing your partner back.
So do you want to know what that secret is? Good, because I am going to tell you! Here is the simple, but effective secret.
I didn't call my ex straight away after the break up.
In fact I didn't call him at all.
Not for a while anyway.
Why is this you ask? Well, would you feel like getting back with someone who was giving you grief and moaning about the break-up? There will be some pretty strong emotions on both sides of the phone and you both need time to reflect and calm down after the break up.
Calling each other too soon could only make matters worse and the chance of a reunion would likely be slim.
Speaking so soon, especially if there is tension or anger, can do more harm than good.
If one of you keeps calling the other, it can be quite off-putting to the other half.
Now you're probably thinking - if you don't call your ex straight away, how are you going to get back together? Well that's a good question and it is important that you want to get back together for the right reasons.
So, first of all don't bombard your old partner with calls, texts or emails.
Keep your distance for a while.
Then, when the time is right make sure you know the right thing to say that relates to your situation and be sincere when you say it to him.
Just be aware that when the time comes, pick a good time to call when you think he will be able to give you his full attention, or better still go and met up with him face to face as it can be easier to get your point across and show your affection in person.
Take a deep breath and go for it!