First there are no guarantees that you can get your ex back, but if there is a chance in hell, this plan I am about to share with you will do it.
Many women react out of emotions and end up pushing their ex boyfriends even further away.
They cry, beg, plead, bargain, try to talk him into it.
They keep asking him why.
They push for a closure talk.
They text, call, drive by, you name it.
These things do not work.
I repeat they don't work.
What these things do is show you in a very unattractive light.
He starts to see you as the lovesick school girl.
If you are thinking of sending him a letter or email baring your feelings, don't do it.
Sit on your fingers.
This is what makes you feel better.
It is not what makes him find you desirable again.
Quite the opposite.
If you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back the best way to get your ex back is to disappear, vanish on him.
Just cut him from your life.
Why does this work? Because this sparks his imagination.
His imagination is your best weapon to get him back.
He starts to wonder about you.
He no longer knows what you are doing so he wonders what you are doing.
He may start to imagine you going out with other men.
He wonders if you got over him that fast.
He wonders wonders wonders.
If you stay in no contact from the beginning or as soon as possible that wondering will get the best of him.
He will more times than not reach out to you.
This is your chance.
Don't blow it.
You can't bring up the past, you can't ask to see him, you can't show any emotion.
Be cool, be happy and smile.
Yes smile.
Get him to wondering even more.
Oh and end the call or encounter first.
Be busy.
This is one of the main steps in getting your ex boyfriend back The thing about being drama free when he does contact you is it makes him feel safe to contact you again.
He thinks wow, she isn't giving me a hard time or making me feel guilty for breaking up with her.
What's up with that? He starts to see you in a new light.
Talking to you was easy.
You didn't make him feel any bad emotions.
He will more than likely start replacing that image of you as drama chick with an image of cool chick.
This is how you get your ex boyfriend back.
It's a process of changing the way he thinks about you.
This will not work over night.
It takes time.
You have to focus on long term satisfaction and not instant gratification.
This could take 30 to 90 days.
Is he worth it? That is up to you.