What should you do if your relationship is going down the tubes? You sense that it might soon be over and you desperately want to fix it before the beginning of the end.
Discover how to save a dying relationship with these tips.
Remember that if you think the relationship is dying then there is a strong chance that the break-up will happen in a matter of days.
In short, you must act quickly starting now! Is There An Obvious Problem? Try to be as objective and honest with yourself.
Is there a specific, single reason why the relationship is dying? Asking a friend in this instance can help greatly if you cannot identify anything.
In some respects, these relationships are the easiest to save.
If there is a single problem then do whatever it takes to fix the problem and, importantly, show that you are fixing the problem.
Remember Human Instinct Never forget that we are governed by our instincts: to survive and reproduce.
Men are looking for physically attractive women because this is an indicator of healthy genes to pass on to the next generation.
They also want a woman who will potentially be a good mother to their children and do their part in return for the man doing his own part as the protector.
Women are looking for strong, indecisive men who have ambitions and an idea of where they are going.
An outwardly confident man is the best predictor of such a man.
Be honest and ask yourself if you are still striving to fulfil the appropriate role for you? Sometimes relationships are formed by fluke that are destined to die because one of the partners never took their role seriously in the first place.
If this is you then you need to make quick changes and again, show your partner that you are making these positive changes for the future.
Emotional Needs It is not just women that have emotional needs.
Men also possess them.
Have you been giving your partner what they need? Men need their egos stroked.
They need to feel like they are the ones in control, even if it is not really true.
Women need to feel like they are being listened to.
Do not fall asleep after sex without having long conversations with your partner! A particularly good book on this subject that I can highly recommend is the classic "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus".