Nothing can raise curiosity more than when someone who is supposed to be depressed is exactly the opposite, and appears to not care about a recent traumatic ordeal. Giving your ex the impression that the break up doesn't bother you at all will have this effect, as well as make your ex miss you like crazy.

Of course you care about the break up - it has left you downright miserable - your ex as well. However, you need to make your ex miss you like crazy, and the one thing that will cause this to happen is if you SEEM to not care about the break up. This is precisely why it is going to take a lot of inner strength from you to do it.

The thing is, you have to keep your plan of action to yourself and tell no one - especially your friends. As soon as they know what you're up to, it will get back to your ex in no time at all, and then your plans will be for nothing. Now, call up your friends and tell them that you have no intention of sitting around moping because of your break up. Say that you have plenty of catching up to do, and you want to start as soon as possible.

Make your ex miss you like crazy and go out with them as much as possible. Make sure that you always look good when they see you. Also, be as cheerful and happy as possible - this will make people want to be with you and you will become very popular. If your friends ask you whether or not the break up bothers you, say that yes, it does to a certain extent, but you are not going to put your life on hold because your relationship fell apart.

All of this is definitely going to get back to your ex who is going to be totally dumbfounded. He/she is going to wonder how on earth you can be enjoying yourself when your relationship has just ended. Of course your friends won't be able to tell him/her anything except that you are such a great person to be with, that everyone hangs around you all the time.

This is going to make your ex miss you like crazy. He/she will more than likely call you as soon as possible to find out what is going on, and then you can take action and try to get your ex back.