Trying to get your ex back can be quite a trying job especially if you don't know how to go about it.
Are you afraid that your ex would ignore you and make you feel insignificant? If your ex is still full of hurt and bitter feelings then you might have to work harder to get her back.
These tips can help you soften her heart and come back to you.
"I'm missing you terribly" A woman generally likes to know that she is being missed.
If she sees you having a great time and behaving as though you don't remember her any more she might feel even more hurt to think that you have moved on with your life.
On the other hand if you can let her know that you are still missing her, she will know that there is a chance of patching up and getting back together.
"I'm sorry" If you can apologize for all the wrong you did in the past, it would make her feel happy to know that you care enough to humble yourself and say that you are sorry.
This type of attitude not only helps to generate forgiveness but it will also show your ex that you have changed for the better! "Let's give it another shot" Many times a broken relationship can be fixed if there is no pride involved.
The inability to accept one's faults and a stubborn spirit can do greater harm.
If you are willing to do your best to get your ex back then be prepared to let your guard down and let her see your feelings.
Tell her that you are willing to try again and see how she responds.
Nothing at all - let your actions speak louder than words Many times it is best not to say anything at all! Let your actions speak for themselves and prove that you are not the same person who caused her so much of heartbreak.
Be genuine and honest and behave in a manner that will show your ex that you have indeed mended your ways.
She will be automatically drawn to you.
"I forgive you" If you really want her back, then you should be able to forgive and forget! There is no way the relationship is going to work if you are still going to keep a grudge and refuse to forget what she did.
Let her know that you forgive her and that you want her in your life.
Admit you were wrong! Even though at times it is difficult to accept your faults and acknowledge your failings, it is an important step if you want to get your ex back.
The very fact that you are willing to take responsibility for your actions and are also ready to be accountable will prove that you love her and are willing to make amends.
"I'm willing if you are! There is no harm in meeting your ex half way! If you really love her - there is no place for any pride.
Be willing to take the first step and show her that you are more than ready to go the extra mile for her.
If she is convinced of your genuineness and your willingness to try again - she will be back!