You can find all kinds of suggestions at a time like this.
Hopefully, some of the ideas below will make a difference for you! 1.
) Reinforce the good times you had together.
Men are pretty much focused on the things that are right there in front of them.
Your goal should be to make him see that the good times far outweigh the bad ones that you had together.
After all, you have got to make him feel like it's worth coming back! 2.
) Don't come across as being despondent or hopeless without him.
Having him come back because he feels sorry for you is probably the worst thing that can happen.
You want to successfully reunite when he genuinely cares about you and wants the best for you.
He wants to enjoy being with you again before he can take the first steps.
"How to win back an ex boy friend" sometimes involves a little bit of salesmanship! Sometimes you need to get involved with other men in a harmless way for a while to get your perspective back.
Online dating sites may give you the chance to open up with men again.
Don't rule it out! 3.
) Overplaying the mind games card is OK-just don't over do it! When you communicate with him try to be sweet and thoughtful.
Be a little hard to get and aloof.
If he enjoyed the challenge of winning you over the first time think how much better it will be the next time around! Men have big egos that you can use to your advantage! 4.
) Be his friend.
Breaking up with your guy was a shock to his system as well.
Behavior modification has to come from within if he has some nasty habits that need to be changed.
Let him know that you understand WHY he may have done things the way he did.
However, you have also got to confront him gently and make sure he knows some things are simply unacceptable.
Using a little honey instead of vinegar is always one of the smartest steps to get your ex back.
5.
) Look at him out of the corner of your if you catch him looking at you.
This little trick conveys the feeling that you can't have me or get me back that easily.
You want him to feel like you are paying attention to him but in a mysterious way.
Once again, this sets him up for a little intrigue that he will probably find irresistible.
6.
) Reinforce that he can't live without you.
Go through the steps above 2 or 3 times with him before giving up on it.
Hopefully in time your guy will figure it out.
Unfortunately, they need a two by four (as in lumber) over the head to get the point sometimes.
Winning him back is going to take a little patience and perseverance.
Don't throw in the towel too soon or you will always regret not having tried harder.