Sometimes, it takes a lot of cunning and psychological tricks to get your ex back.
It may not sound nice but there really are times when convincing someone to get back together will take a lot of mind games.
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Ignore your ex Instead of seeking for attention, why not let your ex do just that? When you bump into each other in social events, mingle with everyone else but your ex.
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Date somebody your ex knows Go out with someone who your ex knows - a friend or a colleague.
This is easier for you to get word to your ex that you're already dating and you seem to have moved on much faster than he or she has realized.
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Be happy When you're happy, your ex will be more comfortable talking to you.
He or she is assured that you're not going to throw temper tantrums or scathing remarks his way.
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Get busy and more outgoing Just because you broke up doesn't mean you should stop living.
Being busier will help you take your mind off your ex and make your ex wonder about what you're up to.
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Don't care about your ex Or at least, you have to act like you don't care.
It doesn't feel good to know that your ex doesn't care anymore so this will get your former partner wondering again.
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Get a makeover When you look better, all heads turn to you.
Your ex will also want to pursue you again.
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Be nicer Lower your expectations and be nice to people.
Show your ex that he or she is still worthy of you by being accommodating to those around you.
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Agree to the breakup Exes are more likely to expect their partners to throw tantrums or cry over a breakup.
Do the unexpected and thank him or her and agree to the breakup.
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Show your ex you're having fun Let your ex feel like breaking up with you seems like the best thing that's ever happened to your life by having fun.
Take photos of your trips with friends or night outs.
This will get your ex wondering about the wisdom of letting you go in the first place.
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Don't give details In case your ex asks you how you have been doing, avoid being too detailed.
Brief answers that will want him or her to ask more are the best.
Your ex will have to fill in the blanks that you have left.