Do you feel a lot of stress in your relationship? Do you think that maybe your boyfriend wants to break up? Are you wondering what to do to make him change his mind and stay? Don't panic.
There are some steps you can take to make sure that this all turns out fine.
You have an early advantage.
You have an idea that the break up is coming.
This helps you to mentally prepare for what is about to happen.
Now is the time to be strong.
Do not act desperate or clingy.
This will give him too much power.
If you live together, start to gather extra money to cover some of the financial loss if he were to move out.
Secure the things that you wouldn't want him to take.
Prepare in any way you see fit.
Do not go overboard trying to please him.
Be nice and see what happens.
If he does tell you that he wants to break up, agree with him.
Tell him you feel that is a good idea and you have been thinking about it as well.
This may seem like just the opposite of what you really want to do.
Remember, you are working a program.
There are certain steps you need to take to make sure he comes back to you on your terms.
Do not make a scene.
Agree with the break up and allow it to happen.
You will catch him off guard and make him start to wonder what is going on.
After the break up, do not call him, text him or email him.
Make no contact with him at all.
This will be difficult.
You will be curious about how he is spending his time and with who.
But it is very important that you stay away from him.
He will also wonder what is keeping you so busy.
He will also wonder why you are not calling him.
He will try to call you.
Do not answer.
You will make contact with him later.
As stated earlier, it will be on your terms.
Right now you are giving him plenty of time to think about you and miss you.
This is a huge part of the plan.
While you are apart, keep yourself busy.
Do whatever you can do to keep yourself occupied in a positive way.
Start an exercise program like walking or running.
Spend time with family and friends.
Reorganize your home, your car or whatever needs attention.
Just be sure to stay busy.
This will help you to feel positive and like you are moving in a good direction.
It will also help you keep your mind off of him.
These are the first steps to take from the time you are thinking your boyfriend wants to break up.
Be strong and work from a position of self-control and power.