After a breakup, it can be frustrating when everything you do to get your ex back seems to make him pull farther away. He used to be so loving and kind, but now he is cold and distant. If this is happening to you, use the power of reverse psychology to pull him back fast. This is easy to use and it can work like magic and change even the most stubborn man into a lamb.

Actually it is only doing the opposite of what he expects you to do. When he broke up with you, your ex boyfriend expected you to try everything to get him back. But instead of chasing him, using some reverse psychology will have him chasing you again. All you will need is a little strength and determination and he will be begging you to take him back.

The first step is to cut off all contact with him for a few weeks. You might be afraid he will forget you and find someone else. That is not very likely to happen. Instead your ex will be concentrating on why you are not trying to get him back. By not having any contact with him, you have taken yourself completely out of his life just as he took himself out of your life by refusing to communicate with you.

He will start having the same feelings of rejection and not being wanted as you had at the time of the breakup. This will cause your ex boyfriend to wonder why you do not love him anymore. The more you ignore him, the more you will be on his mind. Your ex boyfriend will begin to miss you and regret breaking up with you. It will take a couple of weeks to make him feel this way, but now he is ready for your next move.

Since you are not chasing him, he will think you are sitting at home waiting for him to call. You can show him how wrong he is by going out with friends and be seen having a good time. This will show him that you can have a good time without him and you are not sitting around waiting for him. Your ex will also be reminded of the good times you had together and want them back.

Your ex boyfriend will become desperate because he will see you slipping away. The man you love will realize how much he loves you and will not want to lose you. When this happens, your ex boyfriend will be the one wanting to get his ex back. He will no longer be pulling away because by using the power of reverse psychology, he is being pulled back to you fast.