Evidently you have given some thought about saving or restoration of your relationship, with your ex boyfriend.
Its obvious because you have arrived at my article.
Sometimes when you seem to be over apprehensive to get your ex boyfriend back, that is probably not the right altitude to show.
Sometimes when you are too eager to mend your differences, it will cause your ex boyfriend to get suspicious and pull away from you.
It is just the natural way things work.
It will take sometime and a lot of trust to start you back on the right trail.
Sometimes no matter what you do, it pushes your ex further away?Would you say that this describes your situation?Does it keep running through your mind what can I do to get my ex boyfriend back?Check out the following strategy that will help improve your chances of getting back together.
First thing are you playing the role of sadness to make him feel sorry for you?Are you using up all of his prime time phone minutes, text messaging him every time he comes to your mind.
These are two of the most dredged things that will push your ex farther and farther away from you.
So my first advice for you is do not do the above and if you are doing them STOP immediately.
The next step might be the hardest one for you to do but it is very necessary.
You have to separate your self from any contact or communication with your ex boyfriend for a while.
During this time of isolation, you must change the focus from your ex boyfriend to yourself.
Work on your self confidence and do things to improve your life.
If you take the time to do these things for yourself, you can make better and more concise decisions for yourself.
Do not be surprised when you become the hunted instead of the hunter.
Your ex boyfriend will began to wonder what is happening that you are not chasing after him anymore.
Let this work for you, do not over do it and run him off forever.
He will eventually call you.
When he does, be polite and do not jump at just any offer that he lays on the table.
Make it a special treat for you by getting him to take you to one of your favorite restaurants.
Once you are in a pleasant setting, you will be able to relax and maintain your self control so that you can see where the relationship is headed.
You will see a more pleasant side of him because he is interested to find out what have you been doing lately.
If you both agree to get back together, set some type of ground rules in place and a gradual time period for your relationship to grow.
If you jump right back in the relationship where you left off, you will end up in the same place again.
Remember not to be too anxious and eager to accept everything that is placed before you.
By now you should be a different stronger person and can enjoy life and make better decisions without a lot of conflict.
Enjoy life because the days that you lose by making yourself miserable, you will never see those days again.
Well, that is it; I have told you what you must do to get you ex boyfriend back.
Happy Trails.