Hey ladies.
I know what you're going through right now.
When we broke up, I was totally devastated and was pretty much willing to do just about anything to get my ex boyfriend back.
But you don't want to start chasing after him all gung-ho.
Here are a few things you absolutely must avoid.
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Mistake #1 - Don't constantly try to call or e-mail him.
Trust me, I've been there.
I know that when you want nothing more in your life than to just get your guy back, you just have these nearly uncontrollable urges to reach out to him and spill your heart out.
You want to apologize for everything you did wrong and tell him how much you love him.
Don't do this though.
It will only make you seem desperate.
You see if your boyfriend broke up with you, all he really needs is some space away from the relationship and when you are constantly calling him, he's not getting that space and he'll actually push you even further away.
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Mistake #2 - Don't try to make him jealous by dating another guy.
Yes, jealousy can be a great tool to help reel him in, but if you actually start a new relationship it could just hurt things.
He might take it as a sign that you've moved on and that he should as well.
Instead take some time to work on yourself and get back in touch with single life.
Pick up hobbies that you used to enjoy and have fun with your friends.
Remember he fell in love with you because you were a fun and independent woman with your own personality.
Time to become fun and independent again! Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Mistake #3 - If he is seeing someone else already, don't try to put her down or insult her.
You see, if he's already seeing someone new after breaking up with you, he's in a rebound relationship.
During a rebound relationship, he won't be able to help but compare his new girlfriend with you.
Is she more caring than you were? Is she more lighthearted and fun? During this time you want to just focus on being a happy and content woman.
Every time he asks himself these questions, he'll think of you.
If he recently saw you as an uplifting and positive person, he'll be left with no choice but to compare is new squeeze to that.
Chances are she won't measure up and he'll start to realize he's made a mistake.
These are three mistakes I made when I was trying to get my ex boyfriend back, and I don't want you to make them too.