If you've just broken up with someone that was really important to you, the number one thing you can do is stay away from them completely.
And, moreover, if they come back to you, don't act completely hopeless like you've been longing for them to come back with every waking moment.
Keep your cool, act aloof, and maintain your sense of distance.
Give your partner space after a breakup because they broke up with you for a reason, to get away from you.
If they really love you, then they will come back to you on your time.
Anything you do after a breakup that looks desperate will only make them resent you for making them feel guilty.
Most people like tell nasty rumors about their exes once they've broken up.
Some even post dirty pictures on the Internet in the hope of getting their ex or share videos with their friends that were supposed to be normal.
You might be a "motormouth" when it comes to dispelling data about your ex, but this is not the right approach.
The reason is that you will quickly find that your ex doesn't like being talked about and, far from making you look cool, your ex will think you are someone not worth dating again.
This can be bad for your chances so it is best to preserve a positive reputation between you and your ex.
If you can do that, then your ex will have no reason to hate you, especially if you are keeping your space.
Even if you were keeping your space before, your ex may still hear negative information that comes from you through the rumor mill.
That is no good.
Don't let the negative information ever reach her ears.
Keep as quiet as possible about any negative thoughts you may have had because they can find their way back to your ex.
Outside of that, it is best to present a persona that is mysterious and sexy.
The reason is that your attitude can directly be sensed by your ex.
If you present an attitude that is cool and self-possessed, your ex will think you are the coolest guy around.
If your ex thinks you are the coolest guy around, she will drop the impression she had of you when she first stopped dating you and re-evaluate you in light of your new aloof self that is doing well all around town and with the ladies too.
This can arouse her attraction again and cause her to want to be with you.