You want help in getting you and your boyfriend together? I have some tips for you but you will have to follow them accurately.
I will talk about things that may hurt your feelings.
I just need you in a clear state of mind, though I know you've been going through a hard time.
Let me tell you something that you will never be able to change.
Males like their independence! They need their own space and time, which you will have to respect.
They like being the man of the house.
They like when everything is in their control.
If your ex took his distances, it's perhaps a sign that he is losing his independence.
Maybe you are taking over.
He must have lost control over his life and space too.
Without knowing it, you may have pressurized him.
So, if you want you and your boyfriend to get back together, you will have to compromise with this nature of man.
You know guys need to feel ready for any long term commitments or marriage issues.
So, if you see these discussions are getting hot, it means that he is not ready.
Don't try to force or push him into things that he wants to stay away from.
If you want to get back together, you should instead understand his feelings and value his desires, needs and wants.
Make him feel as if he is in charge of the situation and he can decide what and which path to opt for.
Right now, you are concerned with getting him back, before applying the rules above.
If you are still seeing each other as friends, then make yourself a little more "unavailable".
It is just to recreate the interest in you.
Be charming, attractive and desirable! But don't push too hard.