Are you dating a new guy or are you currently in a budding relationship with one? Are you worried that one day, he is going to get bored and stray? Do you want to make sure that he remains interested and focused on you for a long time? Men generally have short attention spans so keeping one wrapped around your finger can be a tough job at first.
However, once you learn the tips and tricks to maintain a man's interest, it will be easier for you to keep him to yourself.
Here are a few tips that can make you keep his interest while making sure that he gives you attention willingly.
1.
Stroke his ego.
If you want to maintain a man's interest, he needs to realize that you are the one who can make him feel better about himself.
Let him know that he is very attractive and that you think he is smart.
Compliment his body and the way he performs in bed.
Just make sure that you are sincere.
The last thing you want is for him to sense that you are just pulling his leg.
2.
Don't be a clingy girlfriend.
Sure, you need to make sure that his eyes are only on you and not on any other woman, and that all his free time should be spent with you, right? Wrong.
In fact, those things will just drive him away.
If you always continue to get his approval on almost everything, it shows that you lack self-confidence.
If he needs time for to spend with his friends, let him do so.
Besides, you don't want to suffocate him by always being with or talking to him 24/7.
3.
Be spontaneous.
To maintain a man's interest, avoid routine.
Act out his fantasies, try something new in bed, or try a new hobby or activity together.
This allows you to have fun with him while breaking the monotony of a boring and uneventful relationship.
Being spontaneous also allows the two of you to discover more about each other.