Most people are born with an incredible amount of fear.
After all, in the world where our brains emerged, there wasn't any healthcare of police or 9-11.
There was only us and a bunch of wild animals that wanted to eat us.
Not a safe environment to be sure.
That's why all of our human desires, wants, and needs come cloaked in protective and automatic fear.
We want something, but we are afraid to get it because we're worried about what might happen.
Nowhere is this more true in the world of seduction.
Men are programmed to have sex with as many girls as we can, or at least in the mood ALL THE TIME, so when that rare opportunity comes along, we're good to go.
Women, on the other hand, are programmed to be very careful who they mate with.
After all, according to caveman logic, if a guy sleeps with the wrong girl, he can simply get up and slip out the back door of the cave in the morning.
If a woman sleeps with the wrong guy, she's pretty much stuck for the next 4-5 years.
So naturally, evolution and Mother Nature programmed her to be a lot more choosy, on a subconscious level, when it comes to choosing a mate.
Of course, with the invention of birth control and protection, there's really no danger for a well prepared individual.
But those subconscious fears still remain.
The key to getting what you want is removing those fears.
Now you can't really walk up to a girl in a bar and tell her you'll stick around if you get her pregnant.
That's probably not the best opener in the world.
But you can be as honest as possible.
Believe it or not, honesty and high self confidence are you biggest weapons when it comes to seducing the women of your choice.
If you're dishonest just a little bit, even to yourself, her subconscious will sniff it out, and it will trigger those "this guy may leave me when I need him most" alarm bells.
Now, you don't need to come right out with your intentions.
Telling her you'd like nothing more than to make love to her for hours might not be the best opener either.
But if you hold that thought in your mind, and not try to hide it beneath some pseudo-logic mumbo jumbo, you'll be fine.
Just hold an attitude that you like yourself, you like her, you'd like to see if she's as really as hot as she looks, and you know you'll enjoy finding out.
And you've got no problems revealing yourself to her to see if there's a good match or not.
So long as you accept and believe this is true, it will come across as how you speak, walk, and look.
And this will make you more seductive than ever.
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