Do you have a hard time telling whether he's really falling for you? Would you like to know if he's heading for love or merely playing a game? How do you know when he is really getting serious? Sometimes it is difficult to read a guy's intentions, but here is a guide to let you know whether he is falling for you or not.
"He loves me" signs: He tells you that you're awesome-and means it.
When a guy falls, he has a hard time not showing it in little ways.
He will be excited about you, and he won't be able to hide it entirely.
He isn't slick about it in the way players are, but he will feel compelled to let you know how great he thinks you are.
He will come to you.
When a man is falling for you, he will want to see you.
He will make the effort to get in touch.
He will call, text, and ask to spend time with you.
If he is really into you, he will make time.
He will offer to do things for you.
When a guy has the hots for you, he can be pretty transparent.
Guys are more nurturing than they are given credit for.
If he offers to set you up with a deal from work, help you wash your car, or asks you if you need anything, he's probably not doing it out of platonic motives.
"He loves me not" signs: He tells you he loves you-glibly.
It might not be as blatant as that.
But, there is a difference between a guy who gives smooth compliments because he's a player, and a guy who thinks that you are wonderful.
He is alternately charming and evasive.
If a guy seems smooth, charming and attentive when you're together, but then ignores you for a while, watch out.
If he exhibits unreliable behavior, then is evasive about explanations, he's doing things that he doesn't want you to know about.
There are no guarantees in love.
But there are some ways to tell if he's falling for you.
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