My ex wants me back? Are you sitting there right now wondering if that truly is indeed the case? It can be a puzzling and downright frustrating question to come up with the answer to. They seem to be friendlier than they have been recently. Are they sending out signals? Well, read further and let's see if we can answer the question, "does my ex want me back?"

There are some very definitive indications that your ex may want to indeed get back with you, but if you have read any of my previous articles, you will know that taking your time is always of the essence. It is always suggested that time apart is usually a positive whenever a reconciliation is being considered. Rushing into things or pursuing your ex too aggressively or too soon will only have the opposite effect. You need to be patient. In fact, as hard as it may be to do so, it never hurts to play a little bit hard to get. Seeming desperate, again, is just counterproductive.

If you are wondering if your ex wants you back, one or many of the following may have or are currently occurring:

- They call you just to say Hi

- You get random texts or emails from them

- They tell you that they miss you

- When talking to them, they may bring up the details and want to discuss your breakup

The challenge here, and this is crucial, is to take your time. Often when you have been with someone for an extended period of time, even if the passion that was once there has waned, it is normal for your ex to miss you anyway, simply because they are used to being with you on a daily basis. They just miss the companionship, not so much the relationship.

In some cases, it can be like a game to your ex. They are simply looking for a response from you in a positive manner that may act to either boost their own ego or simply ease a measure of guilt that they may be feeling, particularly if they instigated the break up in the first place. If you were the one that suggested the break up and they were not happy about it, they may even be trying to get some type of revenge or retribution.

Bottom line is to go very slowly. Take your time, do not seem overanxious if indeed you truly want to get back with your ex, also. If their intentions are genuine, time will only act in your favor and not work against you, and will make things all the more rewarding if you do in fact end up back together.