Are you looking for a way to make him love you? Do you wish it would happen as it does in the movies, but so far you're not having any luck? Is making him love you turning out to be an impossible endeavor and you wonder if you'll ever settle into a nice and long lasting relationship? Some people fall in love at the drop of a hat and everything works out well with only a minimal amount of effort.
They meet the right guy without even trying.
They realize that they have plenty in common and they have a bright future together, and they go on to live happily ever after.
For most of us, however, it's a little more complicated than that.
We can meet man after man, start a few romances that fizzle out, or even get into a long term relationship that ends up in disaster a few years down the road.
Here's how you can have the best chance at making a man love you for life.
Winning Personality Most women will put all their efforts into looking their best, which does have an important place in a relationship, but they forget or neglect to take care of the personality that is really going to win the guy over.
In a club recently, I watched a busty blond walk in with a pout her artificially thick lips.
She could have literally just walked out of a pin-up photo session.
Her bust was the first thing everyone saw and she seemed to think rather highly of herself.
When the man she approached turned away and paid more attention to the pert little brunette at his side (with normal sized breasts), that busty blond just didn't understand.
She raged with indignation.
Bring more personality to the table than sexuality, if a real relationship is what you're looking for and you want to make him love the real you.
Respect and Admire If you want to make a man love you, you have to make him feel good about being with you.
This isn't likely to happen if you're always picking on him and putting him down.
Many women actually battle or compete with the men they date, jutting out their chest and trying to up the guy at every turn.
While this can make for some fun and interesting banter in the right context, women often turn it into something vulgar and unappealing.
Instead of making yourself look better and more important than he is, compliment him for his accomplishments and let him see that you admire the man that he is.
Don't Watch the Clock This isn't a race so you shouldn't have a set date in your head for when this romance has to explode into something big and everlasting.
Give the guy plenty of time to get to know you and to come to love you.
Take a step back every once in a while and let him see that you're not in any rush to go anywhere.
Making a man love you is something that happens gradually.
Enjoy the process instead of allowing frustration to grow because it's not happening as quickly as you'd like.
You'll win in the end.