Want to know how to flirt with men effectively? Wouldn't it be great if you knew how to approach men in such a way that made them instantly attracted to you? What if I told you it was a skill that could be learned? Read on to find out how to flirt with men -- and end up with the best of them! First of all, let's talk about how NOT to flirt with men.
Many women make the mistake of thinking that since men are visual creatures, the fastest way to his heart would be to dress up nicely, put on the right amounts of makeup, work up the nerve to look confident, and then give him the right kinds of body language.
If that's the way you do things, I'm willing to bet you're not getting much success.
Here's why: Mistake #1 - It's true that men are visual creatures, but it's a mistake to think that's all there is to them! No, you'll need to match your looks with your conversational skills, too.
If you can't do that, then you're setting him up for a big letdown.
Not the best way how to flirt with men! Mistake #2 - When you have to work up the nerve to look confident, you're already doing things wrong.
Sure, confidence is sexier than looks alone.
But confidence has to be NATURAL to be attractive.
No matter how well you act, men aren't stupid -- they can sense you're putting on a show a mile away.
Mistake #3 - The right kinds of body language is great -- but again, it's never enough to leave a good impression unless you know how to carry a conversation.
Do you really want to come off as someone who's all looks and not much else? Want to know how to flirt with men effectively? Just take the three mistakes we discussed above, and turn them around.
Learn how to talk, learn how to be naturally confident (that is, learn not to care what other people think), and learn how to carry an enjoyable conversation.
It takes quite a bit of practice, I know, but great relationships never just fall on your lap.
(If it does, there's something wrong!)