In a frantic state you ask; how in the world can I get back with my ex girlfriend after we have broken up? Then you rack your brains thinking what could I have done differently. Then you make plans about writing apology letters as such to get your girlfriend back.


Usually this tends to be a no can do for one reason: you really can never tell what the causes were behind a breakup. Females get all emotional and never know what led to the breakup in the first place; also, they have no idea what is making them feel the way they do. In many a case it's a complete waste of time to try and figure out what you did wrong.


First thing first, you need to let the relationship cool of for a while forget for now how should I get back with my ex girlfriend? Take yourself away from the situation for a while. Go meet some new friends have some fun and forget about females for a while. Start making some goals about networking and meeting new people.


Let yourself have some time a few months as such and make some changes in your life. Do yourself a favor remove yourself from your ex and watch how amazing things start to happen.


You will be amazed with yourself and began to make small but confident changes in your own life as well as how you view relationships. Then a few months later, you may have a much clear picture of how you want to go maybe proceed with your ex.


Then you will decide do you really want to get back in a relationship with her. Maybe, perhaps you are ready to move on and not look back. Then you will your decision clearly. If you are sure you want to get back together with her, then you want to take the time to find out exactly how she feels about you.


This is your chance to be determine exactly how you want to get your ex girlfriend back.


The last thing you want to do is beg your ex to come back to you. You do not want to break down that way and become so emotional that you are not thinking right.


At all times you want to remain in control. Since you have been apart for a while, she might be missing you just as you are missing her. The main thing you want her to realize is that you are doing great by yourself. Be a little distant but not too much. This will no doubt make her think about you.


At this time you will know if it really makes sense to get back with your ex. Do not over analyze things though. This could possibly prevent you from making a clear decision. Remember to remain calm and play things slow and you will be fantastic.