There are millions of men who fight with their girlfriends all the time due to a certain habit that she won't just shed. However the dissatisfaction is unwarranted as it is very easy to maintain a good relationship with your girl and still have her behave well. Instead of reprimanding her all the time for a mistake you could work around her faults and praise her efforts to change or improve.

There are very many theories about human behavior but one contested fact is that continuous scolding or reprimanding for bad behavior just imprint it on their character and does not help them to change in any way. They know that it is part of their character and will not want to change.

A perfect example is when you get angry at your lover when boys try to flirt with her at a party. She will not change but will just learn how to flirt better when you are not around or use tricks when you are there.

If she does something you hate front of your friends or in public, do not yell at her or reprimand her there. Wait for when you are alone and talk her in a tone that is not accusing. Girls will cry at anything so if you don't want to escalate issues with water works at a public place, just use kind words with a woman.

Even in class, children who have some bad behaviour are not always punished for it but are often rewarded for significant improvement.

If your girlfriend never remembers to make york eggs right, don't start talking about what she could have done better as you take breakfast, the best approach to such a situation is to put on an apron and show her how you like your eggs best. She will make those every day just to impress you.

When you reinforce somebody for behaving in a certain way, they will do their best to live up to those standards. Men need to understand why their girlfriend behave the way they do around them. You as a man can get her to behave the way you want by responding to her in a particular way. They say that men do not read mind but neither do women. Don't come home sulking and expect her to come and boost your moods like you are a warlord. Issues that need to be discussed should be talked about in situations that do not compromise her comfort

As with sex, the response of a woman will be guided by her confidence at her body and how much she trusts you. Listen to her both physically and emotionally and avoid putting too much pressure on your girlfriend in the bedroom. If she is not comfortable with a certain position, please resist the urge to insist as this will turn her off and make your sexual experience dull and boring.

There are very many things that will make your girlfriend the ideal person for you but if she is not are all what you wanted, you could try to change her but with caution. If a woman realized that you hated it when she goes out with her tacky girlfriends, the first thing would be to leave you and fast.

Communication is the key to the stability of any successful relationship. Women learn how to adapt to situations of the heart quickly and if you sat her down and discuss the issues that you don't like then maybe she could conform to your behavior standards of her own accord.