Being the parent of a child with ADHD, also known as Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, can be an emotionally and physically demanding job.
Children diagnosed with this behavioral disorder often have problems focusing, concentrating, and can be very hyperactive which can leave parents feeling exhausted by the end of the day.
It can also be very difficult to find the help and support that mothers and fathers need not only to help their kids, but also to make sure they themselves are taken care of.
If you are a parent with a child that has the condition, here are some things you can do to cope: 1.
Research, Research, Research!: The more you learn about the condition, the different treatments available, and how it affects your family, the better you will be prepared for dealing with difficult situations and understanding what is happening.
When you know everything there is to know about ADHD, you can make better decisions on what is best for you and your child.
Speak with your pediatrician, therapist, and others to learn the best resources for learning as much as you can.
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Get a Routine: Children who are hyperactive and have problems with inattentiveness have shown to do the best in a structured environment that includes a regular routine.
While it's impossible to stick to a schedule rigidly every single minute of every day, having the basics of a morning, afternoon, and bedtime routine can be a great help.
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Find Support: It is easy to feel as if no one understands you or what you are going through in raising your child.
Many people do not believe that ADHD is real, which can further add to your frustrations.
Fortunately, there are many places you can connect with other parents.
CHADD, a non profit center for those with attention deficit disorder offers many local chapter meetings where you can attend seminars and connect with other parents.
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Take Breaks: Your own health and happiness are very important, so taking much needed breaks away from the children can be of great help and make you be able to deal with problems or concerns calmly and more effectively.
At the very minimum, you should take at least a few hours each week to yourself doing something you enjoy and find relaxing to help you recharge.
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Work With a Counselor: While your child may be undergoing counseling, it is just as important that you too have someone to talk with.
They can help you work through any feelings of guilt and frustration as well as help you learn new parenting strategies that make it easier for you to deal with behavior and discipline problems.
It's not easy being a parent, but when you do these five simple things listed above, you'll find that it is much easier and that you and your family will be much happier in the long run.