Of course it is a natural thing to put your best efforts into your online dating search for singles, but trying to hard sometimes can lead to you overdoing it. A big mistake that many online daters make when they are getting to know a potential match is trying to impress them to much to fast, keeping yourself from being over aggressive in your wooing will help your search and dating process go a lot smoother. Dont scare away your potential partner with over aggressive tendencies.

Here are some common traits in people who may be more prone to being to aggressive in wooing of other singles:

- People who are constantly trying to please others
- People just getting a thrill from the challenge of romance on a first date
- People that have a perception that there are only a few good potential matches out there, the fear of not being able to find that perfect match.
- People that are inexperienced in the dating world
- People that are living in a fantasy dating world.
- People who either have a fear or like competition in finding a mate.

Some simple advice, do not try and determine if they are in fact a match by simply reading profiles and communicating by emails with them prior to you actually get a chance to know them better by an in person date, this will help to minimize your hopes and aspirations that this is going to be the perfect match for you. And the potential match whom youve placed on a high pedestal might fall for you and now both of you are an emotional mess and most likely will be apprehensive to continue with online dating. Take your time to get to know each other before you start coming to any conclusions about whether they are the right match for you. You can also get important opinions from family and friends that you trust. And most of all dont blame the dating sites, just take things slowly and progress at there own pace. The dating process is one of trial and error and keeping an open mind and learning from each day. When the right time has come along for you to make a commitment to invest your time and energy to impressing the right match for the right reasons will happen. Good Luck and Happy Online Personals Dating!