So you want to know how to lick your wife? Well, you're far from the only one out there asking that question.
There's something inside of all of us men that wants to make our wives happy.
We try and try and, for me at least, it seems like a lot of my efforts wind up having the opposite effect of what I intended.
I don't know about you, but I don't always feel like my wife likes what I'm doing to her in bed.
Sometimes I get the feeling that she's just humoring me or maybe even pretending to like it (and maybe even faking the odd orgasm).
There's nothing worse than wondering if she's really enjoying it, so here's a few tips to make sure you're doing things right when you try to please her with your tongue.
1.
No stress please.
Not a technical tip but one that bears mentioning.
A woman's biggest sex organ is between her ears and if her mind is thinking about how the kids aren't happy at school or one of the issues she has with your relationship, then there's just not room left to think about having crazy sex with you.
And the last thing she wants when she's stressed out is your mouth (which to her means NOSE) down in that ever so personal area.
Talk to her, show her your understand and appreciate her.
Make sure she knows that she's not alone.
Women want to be taken care of first, or they won't care if you know how to lick them.
2.
Reassure her.
Women are notoriously self-conscious creatures.
They constantly compare themselves to other women, and might think that they look strange or not good down there.
So make sure you tell her how beautiful she is to you, that part included.
Be gentle, go easy.
It will pay off in the end.
3.
Shower together first.
One of her biggest fears is that she'll smell and taste bad and that you will think she's disgusting.
Get rid of that possibility by making sure things are clean down there.
This will go a long ways towards helping her relax.
When you do get your tongue down there, be sure to tell her how good she tastes.