As we all grow older, it is comforting to know that someone will be there to carry on after we are gone. However, sometimes it appears there is nobody left but ourselves! Do not despair, however, as there are always ways to find your missing beneficiaries.
The first thing most people try during a genealogical search is seeking out relatives. Genealogy has boomed in popularity due to this lately. It also is a really fun and interesting hobby that can tell you things about your family that you never even knew! With just a little looking you can find that you have family all over the world.
This is a popular way to find people to take over for you as not only does it keep things within a family, it can bring families closer together. As you meet and grow to love your kin, you can start a brand new family life while helping the future generations grow. Be careful when introducing yourself for the first time, however, as the "long lost relative" scam is common these days. Making sure that you explain that you do not want money but really want to reach out and make family connections will help.
Sometimes you get unlucky with your relatives. Maybe they are worried it is a scam, they are too far away to keep in touch with, or maybe they have passed on. Either way, it means you will need to make new friends. These friends can be anyone you like from a clerk at a store to your local pastor or rabbi. Anyone you know well can be there to carry on for you when the time cones.
In this case, all you need to do is reach out and get to know these people. Being friendly can be strange at first if you are not used to it, but you can do it! Try asking them out for coffee or striking up a conversation about a television show you like. Little things can help you get to know them and, over time, you can even trust them enough to make them your heirs.
If you for some reason do not have any close friends nor want to make any, there are still other places that can inherit your old belongings. Charities are always in need of donations to help them keep going. Sometimes, item donations are just as useful as monetary ones. For example, a shelter for abused women will adore your old women's clothing and dishes. The women trying to get on their feet will be happy for your old things, too!
All you have to do is make sure that your will states that certain items are going to charity. Pick charities you believe in and trust and try to match up their needs to what you already own. When in doubt, do not be afraid to call them. You would be surprised what your old stuff can do for others!
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