In telling if you are really in love with a man or with yourselves, both of you must have to first define the relationship. What does this Guy that loves to hang around you without saying nothing wants from you? In proverb 23:3 the word of the Lord reads:€ Through wisdom is a house built and by understanding it is established€.
Now how do you understand? Through information and how do you get information? Communication! That's ask him to define where relationship is taking you both. As I discuss on the subject in this article, let me first define what mean by a course and a love?
A course is an intent infatuation. Then what is an infatuation? Infatuation is to inspire with a foolish and excessive passion Therefore, what is a love? Love simply means a powerful emotion felt for another person manifesting deep affection and devotion. Love begins with what you give in a relationship not what you can get!
Seeing someone and having a very strong sexual attraction or passion towards him or her does not mean you know the person or that both of you can work together. So, that can be the beginning of the love. This at least shows you attracted to the container but doesn't suggest a very affection to the content itself.
Marriage cannot be built base on that initial attraction alone. If you must love, you must love for who you are, love your spouse personally, intellectually, spiritually, socially, his or background and his or goals, that's where he or she is going. "Can two walk together except they agree"? The appropriate answer to this Biblical question is emphatically NO! This means there must be compatibility. This is the reason why we tell people that there is nothing like love at first sight. It takes time to develop love. You don't fall in love but you grow into love because it is a developmental stage.
This is very necessary at the same time important as both of you get along in the relationship. You both must learn to remember and share in each other special day of interest and happy moments such as promotion at work, birthday, some special kind of appointment and favour. This is good and strengthens the love between you." Rejoice with them that rejoice and weep with them that weep" Romans 12:15.Therfore, I will like to know hear from you the faring of your relationships.Happy married lives.