If you feel hopeless and feel that you will never be able to get your ex back because he is dating someone else I have some good news for you. Yes, it may be painful to know that your man is with another woman or you suspect that he has found someone else but there are reasons why you should still hold fast to hope if you are wanting to get him back. It may be tempting to feel completely hopeless and to give up but if you want to give it another try and get him back here are the reasons why you should remain positive if he has found someone else.

Your History - You and your ex have a history. Yes, right now he may be spending time with someone else but that does not erase what you and your ex had together. The time that you spent together was real and the love that you shared was genuine. If he denies it he is only trying to cover up his feelings, which is a good sign in reality. Love really never goes away and the bond that you shared will always be there just waiting to be cultivated when the time is right. When will the time be right? Well, that's entirely up to you. It's just a matter of when you want to drop the hammer and get him back.

She Is The Rebound - Whoever he is with or any woman that he might be with in the future will only be the rebound relationship. Statistically rebound relationships don't last very long or wok out as planned. If this other woman is the reason for your breakup the chances of the two of them staying together are even smaller. Once the novelty of the relationship wears off and the excitement that comes from sneaking around is gone he will probably wonder what he saw in her in the first place.

Is He Using Her - Could he be using her as a crutch after the two of you broke up? Often men don't want to be alone after a breakup and the attention from another woman can fill that void left after he pushed you out of his life. Loneliness and solitude can be depressing and the company of someone that finds him attractive could be a big boost to his ego right now. Of course, once he starts feeling better there is a very good chance that he will want to be alone to mourn the end of your relationship and she will be gone.

Did She Steal Him - Many times women are attracted to men who are taken already. This is why married men are a target for so many women. If you were with him then there must be something desirable about him and he must be worth having, right? Often the anticipation and chase can be more of a thrill than the actual relationship for many women. Once she has him and spends some time with him the thrill will be gone and she will break his heart.

As you can see, there isn't much to worry about if your ex has found someone new or if another woman has stolen your man from you. Rebound relationships have dismal success rates and often end as quickly as they began. Factor in the fact that you won you man's heart once before and you can see that your chances of winning him back are pretty good. Of course, you should keep all of this information to yourself. Telling him that it will never last might just make him angrier and he might just stay with her out of spite. Now is the time for you to come up with a plan to get him back and begin mapping out the course that you will take to win him back. Sitting back just waiting for them to break up and for him to come back to you might seem like a good idea but I am sure that you want to be proactive in your approach to getting your ex back.

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Good Luck!