Ever since my school days, I have noticed tons of guys who would pick up hot girls amazingly.
I, being a guy blessed with very average looks, would wonder how they did it.
And if there was something that caused these hottest girls to go around with these boys, it must be an important thing to be learnt.
Later on I realized that attraction was not just a matter of looks or money.
Being attractive is not a characteristic but a process and to become attractive, you need to follow certain rules and know a critical theory too.
To begin with, let us understand first how attraction works for a male.
For a male, attraction is driven by beautiful faces, sexy looks, and nice vitals etc.
In simple terms, I would remark that attraction in case of a man is based on what he sees.
But it is certainly not true with women.
And a strange thing is that even most women don't know about it.
If you ever ask any hot girl as why she ever dated or hooked up with an average looking guy, she will never have a logical answer for it.
By that I mean that she may choose to be with a guy for a number of reasons like he is very funny, interesting, or makes her feel good but a killer look is never her first priority.
In other terms, I would say that attraction is not LOGICAL in case of a female but EMOTIONAL while in case of men, it is.
But this does not mean that women do not think logically or men can't think emotionally.
It is perfectly fine for women to think emotionally.
God created women that way.
Don't you notice how they take care of babies? Babies cannot talk.
This characteristic helps them understand so many non-verbal communications.
So, in order to become attractive, you need to establish a deep connection with a woman.
And that is certainly not an instant event.
It takes practice, guidance, and time.
But the basic rule of the game is to know that you need to touch a woman on emotional level in order to become attractive for her.
For a detailed study on how to pick up, date and go ahead with women is available on many websites nowadays.
I would suggest you to refer one for the right guidance.
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