When you are guests at a party, you must realize the amount of effort and planning the host put into making the event fun for you.
Repay them by following these basic rules of etiquette, and always be sure to thank them sincerely for a wonderful time.
Avoid any breach of etiquette when the invitation arrives.
As soon as you can, RSVP to the host, and let them know of your intentions.
It's inappropriate to ask if you can bring another person to the party with you unless the invite specifically says, "and guest.
" Also, unless there are religious or medical reasons to watch your diet, don't ask the host what they'll be serving.
Whether you're following a low-carb diet or are a practicing vegetarian, keep it to yourself, and make do with what's served.
Once you arrive at the party, be on your best behavior.
Follow the directions on the invitation.
If it specifically said not to bring a gift, don't do it.
Not only will you make the host uncomfortable, but you'll also make other guests who obeyed the instruction feel bad.
A small hostess gift may be appropriate, depending on the event, but it should be no more than a token.
As the party gets going, it goes without saying to watch your alcohol intake and limit drinks to a reasonable number so the host doesn't have to take care of you later.
Respect the mood, pace and boundaries that the host has established.
If they want light classical music playing, don't insist on changing the stereo to a rock station.
If they don't offer to give you a tour of the home, don't ask for one, and don't go through closed doors and darkened rooms.
When it's time for the party to wrap up, be a considerate guest, and pay attention to your host's cues.
If the invitation had a specific end time, plan on leaving at that time.
If the party schedule seems open-ended, watch for the host to start serving the final cups of coffee or checking with other guests about transportation home.
Always be considerate of overstaying your welcome when you are a guest to a party.
Finally, to be a good guest, simply avoid doing anything extreme.
Extreme eating, extreme drinking, extreme talking and even extreme compliments will all likely cross over into the realm of poor etiquette.