"Marriage, a beautiful institution!" The things started fine, beautiful bonding of two souls in presence of everyone and with the blessing of god.
Probably the most beautiful day in their life was they day they got married, exchange of kisses and a beautiful honeymoon trip in the cards.
The things ended in a stunning fashion, now what we hear from them...
"Marriage, a beautiful mental institution!" This is the most frequently acquainted story of near about everyone, probably i can bet on it.
Once for sure every single who gets married definitely thinks about his single life.
Why? It was a decision, not a forced one but one they took happily, willingly..
Now it`s like...
"Happiness, it has moved out after the marriage!" Why? Why is this question arising in most of the cases? Marriage is not as simple as it seems, it`s about increasing your responsibilities, restricting your limits, getting much more behaved..
This is where the things strike and they strike really hard.
When you have an increased number of people to give reasons to whatever you are doing, taking care of not only your soul mate but even the people to whom he/she is related with, thinking about not only the happiness of two souls but a large number of insignificant people to whom either you or he/she is related..
Somewhere in this misshaped commitment the individual happiness is lost somewhere.
Only the responsibilities are visible.
Marriage comes with this token of devotion to these things which are no where related to your happiness..
Nowhere...
So finally the emotions rage out somewhere causing a dullness in the relationship, everyday quarrels ,which come out of the blue as most of the married couples relate their fights..
It wasn`t something decided it just broke off..
Why won`t it? You can never keep people around you happy and satisfied if you are not keeping happy! That`s a fact.
FInally a break off or continuity just cause of some some compulsions...
losing flavours of life...
Problems everywhere..
Preferring live in as better solution to these hazardous results of marriage is quiet obvious in the present world.
Living with someone you love is not preventing you to be an individual in your thoughts.
There you are free to take care of your own people as you want and without even caring whether the person u r in love is at all bothered about it or not..
Definitely your tensions will add to his/her too but then he/she is having his free will to be with you and anything which is done by choice is better than something forced.
No bound no ties..
their world will be so perfect..
sharing things cause they want to, isn't it beautiful...
All smiles no tears ..
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no fear of some relation which can be broken..
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love and life ...
a perfect world!!! It`s about two people falling in love each day as they once fell, this is the aim which marriage can`t achieve and if this is not there in the relation, it`s of no use..
!! To love and to live happily doesn`t require any kind of seal or stamp as "marriage"...