- 1). Set an expectation for teens by modeling respectful behavior. Adolescence is a period when new beliefs, values and ideals are formed, often under the influence of a peer group. The delusion of external pressure from TV shows, music, advertising, and social expectations strengthens the need for adults to model appropriate and positive language and behavior.
- 2). Be consistent with words, actions and expectations. Enforce clear boundaries. Teens will naturally test and push limits. Remain consistent with rules, rewards, and punishments - this will help teens understand the consequences of their behavior and make conscious choices. Discuss why boundaries are in place. Explain your role to keep them safe and help them to achieve.
- 3). Research conducted by the Federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention found that at least one in four teenage American girls has a sexually transmitted disease. Underage drinking, substance abuse, teenage pregnancy, and adolescent violence are real dangers for young women. Prepare teens by facilitating open and honest discussion. This will create an open dialogue, which is key in a teen-adult relationship.
- 4). Teen girls and boys have different learning styles. The Chronicle of Higher Education reported that "speaking in a classroom is more congenial to boys' language experience than to girls', since it entails putting oneself forward in front of a large group of people, many of whom are strangers." Hone in on the needs of teenage girls by facilitating smaller group discussions and individualized work.
- 5). Provide opportunities for physical fun; this will encourage teens to develop confidence and create social connections. Although teen girls may appear more interested in adult activities, "play" is not just the domain of small children. Research published in the American Journal of Play found that play helps adults to develop socially and cooperatively, and is a fundamental component of human nature.