Why do we protect our car, our house - but we don't protect our loved ones? You insure your car, your house just in case the worst happens but 99% Malaysian adults haven't made a WILL to protect their family from needless suffering.
In Will Writing, you don't need to make a lot of legal decisions, but rather you need to make a lot of personal decisions.
It's not easy to make personal decisions.
We worry about changing, we worry about having to give up something, we worry about making mistakes.
The closer you get to making a decision, the more stress you are going to fee.
Chances are, you will want to postpone making decision.
You may say, "Let me think about it" or "Let me talk to my wife" or "Talk to me after 3 weeks.
" When it reaches the stage where you want to give up, a good will writer's responsibility is to help you stick until you come to a decision you can feel good about.
Everyone wants to make responsible decisions, but most people postpone making the commitment.
They think it'll get easier.
Well, it doesn't get easier.
In fact, delaying a decision can be dangerous for the people that you could have protected.
Find someone who can help you until you make a decision.
It can be yes, it can be no.
As long as it is a decision you can feel good about.
Remember, don't put your family and loved ones in HELL while you are in HEAVEN.