Dating is one of the most important skills to have in life.
Unfortunately many don't associate dating as a skill but it is.
The old adage is practice makes perfect and to a certain extent, this is true in dating and relationships but only if one has the fundamentals down.
Regretfully, the fundamentals are not taught in junior high school, high school or even college.
To be frank, they are not taught in formalized education at all.
Recognizing this, in this article, I'm going to reveal some of the fundamentals when it comes to dating.
When followed and executed properly, the results will speak for themselves.
Dating Tips 101 1.
How to properly approach a girl and strike up a conversation.
No pick up lines involved.
You want to know the answer? Quite simple: "Excuse me.
Hello, my name is Jeff.
" Which is followed by me shaking her hand.
This action alone will give you insight as to whether the girl on the receiving end is interested in you or not.
2.
How to properly exchange contact details with a girl.
HINT: If you ask a girl for her contact information and she responds, "just tell me yours" or some other equivalent, you can stop right there because 9 times out of 10, she is just not interested in you.
What do you do when faced with this situation? Quite simple.
Move on because frankly she will not be worth your time and energy.
3.
When to contact a girl after getting her contact information.
Many guys are at a loss when it comes to the question of "when" to contact her.
Is it the same day with a short text? The next day with a phone call? The answer is to wait anywhere from 5-9 days before following up with a phone call.
Yes, old school on this one.
Not a text.
4.
What to say to the girl when it comes time to call her.
Surprisingly it isn't rocket science.
Call her and if she picks up the phone you say something to the equivalent of "Hello Jeff here.
What's your schedule like for next Tuesday or Thursday? I would like to take you out on a date for some coffee.
" Then you wait and respond appropriate based on her reaction.
If she doesn't pick up the phone, you always leave a message similar to what you would say if she picked up the phone as in my example above.