If you really want to get your ex back, then read on for some ways and tips that will help you get them back. Breaking up can be one of the most painful things that can happen to you, but you may be able to learn life lessons on maturity and responsibility that will help you manage stressful situations in the future. Learning emotional stability will also help you in your relationship in the life ahead.

One of the most important things to do is control your emotions and your behavior. It is very likely that the recent breakup with your ex lover is due to some misunderstanding that led to a fight or quarrel and then unresolved anger. If this is so it is about time for you to learn some humility and make amends by apologizing for your actions. It really doesn't necessarily matter if it is your fault or not; sometimes you just need to compromise in order to reestablish communications with your ex partner. Remember the two big C's of Compromising and Communicating. Without these your on the path to more disaster and heartbreak.

Another tip that is counter intuitive to get your ex back is to give them the space they say they wanted. Stop all forms of communication. Do that immediately for up to a week. This will give you both time to consider whether both of you want to continue to pursue the relationship. Time to consider if you were meant to be with each other. If you were close in the past and spent a lot of time together this absence will cause the ex to definitely miss you and want your presence in their life again. They might even start to communicate with you again. This may give you the opportunity to start over.

That will lead you be able to start over by dating and talking and really communicating again. It should be easier to get them to love you a second time since you already know their strengths and weaknesses again. Why did your ex fall for you in the first place and why they said yes to the relationship the first time. Make yourself attractive and do the romantic things you did in the first place that they liked. These actions will make your ex fall in love with you again.

There are a whole host of things that you can do to get an ex back: these are just a few tips that may get you back with the love of your life.