Life has many challenges and mysteries when it comes to searching for that divine loving soul mate.
Sometimes we want to reach for the stars for that right man to appear in front of us.
But in Today's World women need to really look for the actual red flags that flash in front of their eyes.
Otherwise we can fall into the trap of disappointments and expectations.
Sometimes life can bring men into Our World to show us what we are actually lacking inside our heart and soul.
There are men out there today who don't have the potential to bring us the joy, happiness, and peace that women are searching for.
These can be such hard lessons for women to learn when they spend time with a man who don't fulfill their highest dreams and desires in life.
There are a lot of men out there today who can be the greatest liars, cheaters, and deceptive in what they want you to see about their true personalities.
Men love to feed women anything they can get away with in order to get what they want and leave you behind as quickly as they resurface once again.
Men will use any source to win their way with a woman by telling them anything they want to hear in order to win their hearts on many levels spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically.
So what are the signs to look out for when it comes to these men out there in Today's World.
When men like something they see in a woman they want to possess or keep around.
They will use any line to come across as that perfect divine loving soul mate.
I remember a line that a player mode man had used on me for so long as "You have everything that I am looking for in a potential relationship, the strong chemistry I have for you, as well as a soul connection that you are my "Kindred Spirit".
Another man that came across to me said recently "You have the most beautiful eyes that I have ever seen in this lifetime".
"I just get lost with how they bring me to other dimensions".
I have a beautiful car that I own which is the dream car I have always wanted for the longest time.
My car is nicknamed "Celeste" because of the angel that she is too me when I drive her.
This car is a 2007 Mustang Convertible and she is glorious on the road as well as having the top down on beautiful days to enjoy the beautiful scenery of "Mother Nature.
" Sometimes I have went into "Dunkin Donuts" to pick up a quick cup of my favorite coffee.
A young man had said to me outside upon entering my car, "Hey Lady, that car fits you very well.
" What is your name and How about lets race into the skies together? Another man that I met two weeks of knowing him had left a voice mail message on my own personal cell phone such as "Would you like to have some "Hot Passionate Sex With Me this evening?" Now that line sent me into a fury of anger which upset and hurt me on a mental and emotional level to this day! Watch out for the lines a man is presenting to you.
I call those type of men today the "danger man" or "Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde" type men known as "Player Mode Men" looking to get you right into the bedroom with you.
These men are very judgmental, critical, and are very great at control and manipulation techniques they have probably used on many innocent victims who have no clue to the dating scene.
If you listen closely to the lines they feed you then you will know what to watch out for.
These men know how to motivate, control and manipulate you into getting you to do anything for them.
Especially to cook, clean, or whatever else they don't have to pay for or expect you do drop off at their doorstep.
Another clue is when they disappear from time to time and resurface once again, "How many other women are they playing for the character role and what great tactics are they using on you next to have you believe in them.
If you are just looking for a phone, text, or email buddy, that is all they will be to you.
They will keep you at a distance as much as they can with every lesson that you experience from them.
Remember that these men have so many fear and insecurity issues, and self identity issues that you wouldn't believe.
I would say under any circumstances that you feel you need proof to find out who they really are is to surf the Internet and find their tracks that they leave behind.
Look for the pieces of the puzzle that they give you to find out their true identity.
These men never know "Who they really are", "What they are about", and what they true want in life themselves.
Remember another lesson, sooner or later, these men get caught from their own lessons they have to learn which is "What comes around goes around back to them in the Real World of Karma".