I've lived through a time when bringing back my lost love was all I could think about. In the middle of the night, the first thing in the morning, and all day long. You've probably been there or are there right now, so if you are looking for the relief and joy that bringing back your lost love promises, there are things you can do to help this happen. First, you must have the willingness to learn and grow and try to look beyond the grief you feel in the moment and set your sights on what can happen instead of what has happened in the past.

If you have been separated by the betrayal of cheating, it may take a little more time to heal your relationship but it can be done, so don't let anger and hurt stop your efforts. In all relationships, breaking up is a test and a challenge, and while betrayal is especially difficult to overcome, if the desire to reunite is there for both of you, don't give up! Love is worth fighting for and while fixing a broken relationship is difficult, the process can help you as a couple, create a better, more loving and trusting relationship than before, it just doesn't feel that way yet!

In the early stages of a separation or a break up is is crucial that you take some time without constant contact with your ex. The desire may be almost overwhelming to call, text, or find some way to be together, but this is not in your best interests! You both need time to get a clearer view of your relationship and what went wrong and even an opportunity to miss each other a little. When I was consumed with bringing back my lost love I did some very foolish and damaging things that almost guaranteed the separation would be permanent, but luckily I was able to get a grip before that happened and found information that helped me calm down and put a plan into action.

It may seem odd to think of bringing back your lost love with a plan, but a plan of action is your very best chance! Without it you will be only reacting to strong emotions without understanding. You will be completely controlled by forces within you that will not serve you well, so stop and think for a minute. When you have a strong overwhelming urge to call your ex love and plead and cry for them to take you back, what are they thinking? They are thinking that nothing is different, you haven't grown and changed at all, and why would they want to get back into a relationship with someone who only wants to use them to make themselves feel better! That's the reality of it, and though it may seem harsh, until you are willing to do the challenging work of self reflection, and being honest with yourself you are not ready to bring back your lost love, and if by chance you could, the relationship would only break up again. That doesn't have to happen! Rest assured that there is help, and you can learn, change and grow and so can your lost love. Keep an open heart and mind and remember that love is irresistible and couples get back together every day, and so can you!