Moving is recognized as one of the top three most stressful events in life, alongside of death and divorce.
That is pretty powerful and something you must take into consideration when moving with kids.
Communication can go a long way in helping to properly prepare kids both emotionally and physically for a move.
With proper communication, parents can help kids view moving as a grand adventure instead of a traumatic experience.
Making the physical act of moving more enjoyable and fun for kids can help keep tensions down and take some of the stress out of the whole process.
To make moving a more positive experience for the kids, start with proper preparation.
There are basically three things that can keep kids occupied during a move: food, activities, and media.
Having fun snacks that may include things the children don't normally eat can help make moving more fun.
Of course you don't want this to turn into a sugar-fest that will increase everyone's energy levels while being stuck in a vehicle, but mixing in some fun treats between the healthy meals can make the trip exciting and fun.
Books, toys, games, and crafts can also help keep kids occupied and having a good time on the move.
Just like the snacks, it helps if these are items the kids aren't accustomed to having so the novelty will keep them more interested.
A new box of markers and a notepad or puzzle book can provide hours of quiet entertainment that will keep the kids happy.
And when the kids are happy, everyone is happy.
Having DVD's and mp3 players is another fun way to hold everyone's attention and help kids enjoy the move.
A movie they haven't already seen is good for an hour and a half to two hours of quiet amusement, and older kids really enjoy listening to their own music and getting a break from the rest of the family for a while.
The most important element to making the move a positive and happy experience for the children is for the parents to have good attitudes.
Planning lots of fun treats and activities can be quite helpful, but don't expect everything to be perfect.
Kids are pretty flexible, but remember that a move is still stressful for them, so try not to nitpick or let your own stress affect them.
If you are happy and positive about the move, chances are the kids will feel good about things to.