At The time of a breakup, you will be getting a lot of advice, whether you ask for it or not. The most frequent advice you will hear is to forget him and find someone else. If you are still deeply in love with your ex boyfriend, you will disregard this advice as being impossible to do. However, what they are really telling you is to ignore your ex and that is exactly what you need to do if you want him back.

You might think that ignoring your ex boyfriend would be the surest way of losing him, but in fact it is the surest way of getting your ex back. Everyone has their emotional triggers that make them respond to certain actions taken by others. When you fell in love with your man, he triggered the emotion that made you see him as the love of your life.

When he broke up with you, he triggered other emotions that made you desperate to have him back. Your ex boyfriend has his emotional triggers and ignoring him is sure to make him want you back. To push these triggers, you have to put distance between the two of you and make him feel you are no longer interested in him. When you push these triggers long enough and hard enough, he will have the urge to get you back.

What makes getting back together after a breakup so difficult, is the difference in the way men and women react following the split. Men want to be left alone to sort things out, but a woman will want to maintain contact. This will make a woman keep calling her ex and he will keep hanging up. But if you take the same approach he is taking and ignore him, your ex boyfriend will feel rejected and confused.

This will not be an easy thing for you to do because it will go against all of your instincts. But your main purpose of ignoring him is to make him realize he still loves you and misses you. Once you trigger his memory of the good times you had together, he will yearn to have them back. He will begin to feel an emptiness in his life and come to the conclusion that you are the only one that can fill it.

Once you realize that the key to getting your ex boyfriend back is making him miss you, ignoring him will make sense to you. It will take strength and patience, but having him back in your arms should make the sacrifice worth it.