HOW TO SAVE A MARRIAGE
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PEOPLE MARRY WHEN THEY FALL IN LOVE
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The marriage vow holds a lot of commitment power, "to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part", but these words of commitment are seldom ever fulfilled. Marriage is difficult to determine if those rocky love waves are just normal or could they be imminent signs of disaster ahead.
WHAT ARE THE SYMPTOMS OR SIGNS OF IMPENDING MARITAL DISASTER?
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If you feel that your marriage may be coming to and end, try talking to your spouse about the problems within the marriage without nagging or blaming because those will only make the discussion more volatile. Therefore, your spouse has to hug you twice before they leave for work, once when they come home for dinner, once after dinner and twice before bedtime. when your spouse has a mood swing, don't get defensive or you will start another problem. If your spouse becomes secretive and prefers the company of their new friend Joe, then ask your spouse to tell you more about Joe and also let your spouse know that you would like to meet Joe. If your spouse would much rather spend time at work, putting in overtime or playing golf with pals, this is a HUGE warning sign of an impending marriage disaster. If your spouse is becoming more and more absent within the marriage, this could be a sign of a marriage crisis. If your spouse doesn't give you the attention that they showed you before you tied the knot then this could be a sign that your marriage is on the rocks.
WHAT WILL YOU TO DO WHEN YOU ARE AT THE BRINK OF MARRIAGE?
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The opportunity to react is ever present. For example:it is like writing an article for a magazine. By trying to control your spouse or trying to talk your spouse into not leaving you, you may convince your spouse that they will never find anyone else who will love them more than you, which could backfire. Ask yourself, what will happen if I do nothing, if I do not change direction and if I do not change my destiny?
Before making your decision, ask yourself the following questions:What will be the true cost of a divorce? Aside from the money involved, there will be the enormous stress, many hours spent in pain and doubt, embarrassing moments with relatives and friends and a lot more. The reason is still there which you will have to recall.
WHAT ARE COMMON EMOTIONS FELT WHEN THERE IS MARITAL CRISIS?
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This is the most damaging causing people to procrastinate and react properly. You will rely on time because it is a great healer. Myth 4. Myth 3.
HOW DO I SAVE MY MARRIAGE AFTER MY HUSBAND COMMITTED INFIDELITY?
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Infidelity does not mean that the marriage is over because surviving infidelity and healing your relationship is possible. Arrange a civilized meeting with your spouse after your rage has subsided. Let your spouse lay their cards on the table and tell you their side of the story.
WHAT ARE SOME HELPFUL GUIDELINES FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE?
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Accept her weaknesses and failures after all nobody is perfect. Men should listen more to their wives speak. Learn to forgive. The first action to save a marriage would be for the couple to recognize that there is an actual problem and to do whatever is needed to defeat the problem. Be brave to face reality, to face the unknown. Disillusionment grows when expectations are unfulfilled. Refrain from being jealous.
HOW CAN YOU PRESERVE YOUR MARRIAGE?
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You can't save your marriage if your spouse does not cooperate. Marriage experts mention that there is more than one path, possibly 8. Marriage experts have made many contributions and come up with the common denominators to assist couples with having a successful marriage. Make your spouse your number 1 priority over your kids and work. Myth 4. Don't ever use the word divorce every time you fight. You love your kids, you take care of them properly.
CAN MARRIAGE BE SAVED?
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Unfortunately, there is no course in any school on how to build a successful marriage. You just have to take the first step. It is a herculean task requiring both spouses to participate.